If you've blogged for awhile, you may have
1. 1. The
more concise your post, the more readers
you attract. Most bloggers visit dozens
of blogs. They don't have time to read and comment on long posts.
As
you exercise self-control in writing tight, short posts, this discipline slips into
your conversations. You find yourself getting
to the point in fewer words, leaving room for others to chat, showing them
the respect they need.
2. 2. Asking questions at the end of each post engages
your reader, and makes them feel important. You can blather on about your
vacation to Colorado and bore your reader for 500 words, or give us a 200-word
run-down, then ask, “Where have you vacationed that you’d love to return to?”
If
you ask questions of friends while talking with them, you make them feel
important. They are important. But now they want to hang out with you
because you showed an interest in them.
3. You
learn more by listening than talking.
When you visit others’ blogs, you pick up trends and tips that help you,
whether it’s a new recipe for chicken chests, a better way to parent, or a link
to help you market your book.
So
it is with conversations. You already
know everything you know. So, the more you listen, the more you learn. And
grow. And become a more interesting person.
Did I leave anything out? How has blogging helped you become a better friend?
You are so right! When I ask questions of someone I just met, they open right up, relax and our friendship evolves. Time is the hardest part though in blogging for me--because it is a two-way street. I must visit my friend's blog and I did great with that until Facebook started to eat my time.
ReplyDeleteJeanette: I believe I have become a better listener and more patient.
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