Tuesday, February 3, 2015

Five Habits of Happy People and Winner of Mercy's Rain

Would you like to be happier this time next year than you are today? Me too. Here are five habits that will make you happy, or twisted around, five things happy people don't do...

1. Happy people don't live in the past or the future. They receive God's forgiveness and look forward with hope, but they never dwell on past mistakes, or ruin their todays by thinking, "When I get my raise..."

2. Happy people don't read into what others say and do, taking it personally. They realize that the universe doesn't revolve around them. If Boo-boo didn't say 'hi' this morning in church, it may be because he or she is worried or distracted.

3. Happy people don't have super-sized expectations of others, which usually lead to disappointment. They expect God to move on their behalf, but they let others make mistakes, and treat them with grace.

4. Happy people don't hold grudges. They realize that bitterness destroys the one who holds onto it, and do whatever it takes--praying for, blessing, giving gifts in secret--to forgive those who've wronged them, so they can move on with their lives.

5. Happy people never give up on themselves. They continue to sing in the rain and whistle in the dark, holding out their hands to God, trusting in His love to turn even horrible circumstances into trophies of his mercy.
Speaking of Mercy, the winner of Mercy's Rain is...

Elaine Miller! Congratulations, Elaine! I hope you enjoy this debut novel from Cindy Sproles.

Are you happy today? 

Which of the above Habits can you apply to your life to make yourself happier? 

7 comments:

  1. All so true - And it's good for me to be reminded of all of them, too :)

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  2. It's a learning experience in my walk with Christ. Each day I have to work on one of those.

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  3. Number 1 is my life verse currently. Forgetting what is behind and pressing forward in complete surrender!

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  4. First, let me say congratulations to Elaine. I agree with Terri, life is a learning experience as we walk with Jesus. Right now, I have to say that number five is something I need to work on.

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  5. Good words, Jeanette. I agree with all your points and at different times, all have been a challenge. However, I am happy right now.

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  6. Thanks Jeanette for an awesome blog post, I tweeted it. Everyone should read!

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  7. Hi Jeanette! You always look so happy in your photos, I know you must follow these rules, thanks for sharing them!
    I am happy today. A friend came over for tea, and brought my husband and me dinner! Wow. Not expecting that :) It's so nice to have a little company. I'm still not weight bearing on my right leg. Trying not to let it get me down!
    Blessings,
    Ceil

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